Section 1:1 Your Life Path
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As a unique person, you have your own daily
life experiences. You also share many experiences
with others. Your life path crosses their life paths
every day. You depend on other people and are
influenced by them. In turn, they are influenced
by you.
Some people have a direct influence on your
life path. They may give you food, clothes, and
shelter so you feel warm and secure. They may
give you a hug or praise so you feel loved. Such
actions and words affect you in a direct way.
People’s actions can also influence you
indirectly. For instance, you may not be invited
to a friend’s party. As a result, you feel hurt
although no one speaks directly to you about it.
You can also directly or indirectly impact others.
Who you are, what you say, and what you do or
do not do are all important.
There is no need to pretend—you can let others
know the real you. Accepting yourself can help
you develop relationships with others.
Growing to Maturity
Knowing your self-identity will also allow
you to make choices that will help you grow to
maturity. When you know and accept yourself as
you are, you recognize your good and bad points.
You can use your strengths to make choices that
help you reach personal goals. You can also make
choices to improve the areas in which you are
weak.
Developing Mature
Relationships
Adolescence is a time for growth toward
maturity in many relationships. During the
teen years, your position in the family changes.
Your relationship with your parents becomes
one of decreasing dependence and increasing
independence. You gain a new respect for your
parents as you mature.
Friendships also change and mature. True
friendships, which involve care and concern for
a friend’s well-being, become important. This is
true of friendships with both sexes.
In addition, relationships develop with
people at work. As you get your first job and gain
work experience, you learn to become a member
of a work team. Learning to work well in a group
makes it possible to succeed at work.
Think of the last item you purchased. Who
was indirectly affected by your purchase?
Who was directly affected?
Use What You Learn
Changes over Your Life
Span
As a teen, you have major developmental
tasks to achieve. A developmental task is
a skill that society expects of individuals at
various stages of life. Accomplishing these tasks
successfully helps you become an adult, 1-2.
Understanding and
Accepting Yourself
One developmental task of the teen years is
to figure out who you are. Asking the question
“Who am I?” helps you clarify your self-identity.
This is a sense of individuality. Exploring the
answers to this question will help you feel that
you have worth and value.
Identifying who you are can help you accept
yourself. When you accept yourself, it is easier
to believe that others will accept you as you are.
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Teens have major developmental tasks to accomplish
as they enter adulthood.
Developmental Tasks
Understand and accept who you are.
Make healthful choices that help you
grow to maturity.
Develop mature relationships with
others.
Prepare for an occupation.
Prepare for marriage and family living.
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