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Chapter 2 Your Growth and Development
Developing Strength in
Character
A person’s character is not shaped in a day,
a week, or even a year. You may have certain
traits that you do not like and want to change.
Developing new character traits takes effort and
time, but it can be done.
The first step in improving your character
is to identify the trait(s) you want to change
or develop. Questions similar to those listed
in 2-9 can help you identify some of these
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areas. Any question to which you answer
“mostly never” may pinpoint an area needing
improvement.
After you identify a weak area, focus
on specifics about it. For instance, if
dependability is sometimes a problem,
identify the circumstances when you are not
dependable. Is it when doing homework? Is it
when doing a task at home? Is it when trying
to be on time for appointments?
The next step in improving your character
is to develop a plan that addresses a specific
trait. List some specific actions to take to
improve the trait. Then work on one area at a
time.
As part of your plan, choose someone to
make regular checkups. A person who is close
to you could check your progress without
offending you. Regular checkups by a friend
will help you implement your plan.
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Think More About It
What other sources of training, modeling,
and examples might affect the growth of
children’s character?
Examining Character Traits
Trait Questions
Self-discipline Do I accomplish what I plan to do?
Can I say no to myself?
Do I keep myself neat, clean, and appropriately dressed?
Dependability Do I arrive on time for a date or appointment?
Can I be counted on to get a job done?
Responsibility Do I do my share of the work when assigned to a group project?
Do I feel that I have a part in helping others grow to their potential?
Do I carry out my jobs without being reminded?
Moral principles Do I respect others’ rights and privileges?
Do I obey the law?
Integrity Do I try to be honest?
Do I present a truthful picture?
Motivation Do I believe that hard work is useful and worthwhile?
Am I enthusiastic about my work?
Do I find satisfaction in a job well-done?
Sense of mercy and
justice
Do I feel compassion when others are ill-treated?
Do I help others when I see others in need?
Am I able to look beyond my own desires to consider the welfare of others?
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These questions help you examine your character traits. Your answers can identify areas that you may want to develop.