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Part One Personal Development
question many times through the years, but now is the time to commit
to an answer. If you do know what career interests you, then you are
ready to start setting some goals for yourself. A career is a series of jobs,
usually in the same or related fi elds. It often includes a progression of
jobs that may lead to advancement.
It is important to begin to focus on goals during your teen years.
Goals help you steer toward a satisfying future. They can give you a
purpose for making the most of every day. Goals help you think more
critically when faced with decisions. Even if circumstances cause you
to detour slightly, you know you can still reach your goals using other
plans. With goals in mind, you have a sense of promise as you look
toward your future.
Finding Your Way
Your future depends on your ability to take responsibility for your
life. You may think life has not given you what others have. You may
not have had a choice in some of the circumstances in your life, but you
do have a choice about what you are going to do with your future.
There are many people who can help you sort out your options.
Although many young people turn to their friends for advice, they also
look to their parents or guardian. If you have a good relationship with
a trusted adult, you are more likely to turn to them for guidance. Other
family members, too, can help you fi nd answers. Do not be afraid to ask
for help.
As you prepare for responsible adulthood, keep the following in mind:
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Seek reliable information resources, and ask questions.
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Identify your options, and think through possible consequences.
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If you make judgments, take responsibility for the results.
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Have opinions, but listen to the opinions of others as well.
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Recognize what is important to you.
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Respect your heritage.
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Be able to communicate, negotiate, and compromise.
Plan and work to create your future. Your life is a continuum—a
long, straight line. What happens to you today will always be a part of
you. What you do today is a part of your future. Keep a vision for your
entire life before you—not just today. You have positive possibilities!